My personal style has never been super girly.
I'll always preferred Converse and Doc Martens over ballet flats and heels -- but who doesn't? I think personal style is best when there's a push and pull between each items. There's a bit of tension that makes you look twice, an imperfection that reminds you of human flaws and the beauty despite it.
Sometimes when something is a little off, it's so right.
That's why I love mixing my masculine and feminine pieces together. It reminds me of the harmony between man and woman, and that even though there are so many differences between both sexes -- they're beautiful together.